Speaking

Ken Rabow on Leading the Youngest People in Your Building

Twenty years of one-on-one conversations with young adults, and more than a decade training adults to mentor them. Now bringing that work to the managers and HR teams who lead that same generation.

Two minutes. This is the talk, in the room, unedited in tone.

20+
Years Mentoring
Young Adults
10+
Years Training
Professional Mentors
10,000+
Hours of One-on-One
Mentoring
The Sessions

Three Talks

Each one is built to be useful in the room, something the people in your audience can apply the next day with their own teams. Each can run as a conference session, an evening chapter event, a lunchtime webinar, or a working workshop.

Session One

When Your Youngest Employees Go Quiet

One of your most capable young employees stops speaking up. Stops contributing. Almost every manager in the building reads it the same way: attitude. It is almost never attitude.

Drawing on more than twenty years of one-on-one work with young adults, Ken shows managers how to read what a young employee's silence is actually asking for, and why the analogue habits that built today's managers land differently on employees who grew up digital. When managers change the conversation, young employees change the response.

Managers leave with one concrete move they can make in Monday's one-on-one, tools they can hand to their own teams the same day, and a practical way to turn a quiet young employee's potential into ownership and results.

Learning Objectives
  1. Read a young employee's silence accurately instead of defaulting to attitude.
  2. Run a one-on-one that gives a young employee time to think and a way to answer.
  3. Turn that first response into a specific, measurable next step the employee owns.
Session Two

Why Your Best Young Employees Leave First

The young employees who leave first are usually the ones you least want to lose. In Ken's experience across two decades of one-on-one work, the relationship with the direct manager, more than pay, decides whether a capable young employee stays or quietly starts looking.

This session looks at what able young employees are actually asking of the person they report to, why the strongest ones disengage earliest and most quietly, and what a manager can change without a budget or a policy rewrite.

Managers leave able to spot the early signals, with a practical approach to turning that potential into ownership and results while there is still time to act.

Learning Objectives
  1. Identify the earliest and quietest signals that a strong young employee is disengaging.
  2. Understand the four things that keep young employees: steady one-on-ones, real two-way feedback, real mentorship, and a clear sense of where they are headed.
  3. Apply one retention move within a week of the session.
Session Three

The Monday Morning Move: Leading Gen Z in 1-on-1s

Most one-on-ones with young employees run on a script that goes nowhere. "Is everything okay?" produces "I'm fine," and both people leave the room with less than they came in with.

This is a working session on the one-on-one itself. Managers learn a repeatable structure that gives a young employee time to think, a way to respond that actually works for them, and a clear direction for what comes next. Ken walks through the specific opening move, what to do with the answer it produces, and how to turn it into a goal the employee owns.

Managers leave with a structure they can run the very next Monday, and a way to turn their young employees' potential into ownership and results over the quarter that follows.

Learning Objectives
  1. Replace the check-in question that reliably produces "I'm fine."
  2. Structure a one-on-one a young employee can actually use.
  3. Close every one-on-one with a specific, measurable, owned next step.
Ken Rabow
About Ken

The Room Behind the Method

Ken Rabow has spent more than twenty years as a one-on-one mentor to young adults, working with capable young people who had stalled or gone quiet and helping them find their footing and step into ownership of their own lives.

He has trained professional mentors in this method for more than a decade. He wrote The Slacker's Guide to Success, a thirteen-step method for helping an under-motivated young person find their own drive.

Those same young adults are now becoming the newest employees on Canadian teams, and the patterns Ken has watched for decades are showing up in workplaces everywhere. He is now bringing that work to the managers and HR teams who lead that generation, translating between managers who learned to get things done in an analogue world and the digitally native young people they manage.

Most advice about this generation comes from surveys. Ken's comes from more than ten thousand hours in the room with these young adults, where the method to harness their potential took shape.

Enquiries

Bringing Ken to Your Members

If you are building a chapter event, a webinar or a conference programme and this looks like a fit for your audience, write to Ken at ken@cmfya.com and he will send a short outline.

Formats
Conference session, evening chapter event, lunchtime webinar, or a longer working workshop for managers.
Travel
Across Ontario in person, and anywhere in Canada for the right engagement. Virtual sessions worldwide.
Continuing Education
Content is built to meet professional development requirements where the hosting body grants credit.